Thursday, February 25, 2021

Inspiring Words

 “It is impossible to escape the impression that people commonly use false standards of measurement — that they seek power, success and wealth for themselves and admire them in others, and that they underestimate what is of true value in life.” Sigmund Freud


“What is success? I think it is a mixture of having a flair for the thing that you are doing; knowing that it is not enough, that you have got to have hard work and a certain sense of purpose.” Margaret Thatcher


“The whole secret of a successful life is to find out what is one’s destiny to do, and then do it.” Henry Ford

“Flaming enthusiasm, backed up by horse sense and persistence, is the quality that most frequently makes for success.”  Dale Carnegie


“The real opportunity for success lies within the person and not in the job.” Zig Ziglar

“I’m a success today because I had a friend who believed in me and I didn’t have the heart to let him down.” Abraham Lincoln


“You can’t outwit fate by standing on the sidelines placing little side bets about the outcome of life. Either you wade in and risk everything you have to play the game or you don’t play at all. And if you don’t play you can’t win.” Judith McNaught


“The good news is that the moment you decide that what you know is more important than what you have been taught to believe, you will have shifted gears in your quest for abundance. Success comes from within, not from without.” Elie Wiesel

Wednesday, February 24, 2021

Icon Haute Couture


Sophia Loren


1957




Vintage Ceil Chapman 1940's 40's Black Crepe Draped Cocktail Party Dress 

In 2009, a Christian Dior haute couture 'Esther' evening gown, from AW 1952, 


Julio Roberts wore in the movie Mirror Mirror






Land of the Blind (2006), 20th Century, Lara Flynn Boyle as First Lady. Costume Design by Phoebe De Gaye.



A man with penguins in his truck


A man was driving down the road when a policeman stopped him. The officer looked in the back of the man’s truck and said, “Why are these penguins in your truck?”

The man replied, “These are my penguins. They belong to me.”

“You need to take them to the zoo,” the policeman said.

The next day, the officer saw the same guy driving down the road. He pulled him over again. He saw the penguins were still in the truck, but they were wearing sunglasses this time. “I thought I told you to take these penguins to the zoo!” the officer said.

“I did,” the man replied. “And today I’m taking them to the beach.”






 

Posted on my 50th birthday. Ten years ago. Today is my 60th Birthday, What have I learned

                                           


Its my birthday today, the big five zero. They say that age is just a number well when you reach the fifties,  things change. Aches and pains come along too. 

 Maya Angelou was interviewed by Oprah on her 70th birthday…Oprah asked her what 
she thought of growing older. 


And, there on television, she said it was 'exciting...'

Regarding body changes, she said there were many, occurring every day.....like her breasts. They seem to be in a race to see which will reach her waist, first.

The audience laughed so hard they cried. She is such a simple and honest woman, with so much wisdom in her words!

Maya Angelou said this:

'I've learned that no matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.'

'I've learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles these three things: a rainy day, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights.'

'I've learned that regardless of your relationship with your parents, you'll miss them when they're gone from your life.'

'I've learned that making a 'living' is not the same thing as 'making a life.'

'I've learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance.'

'I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt on both hands; you need to be able to throw some things back...'

'I've learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision.'

'I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one.'

'I've learned that every day you should reach out and touch someone. People love a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back...'

'I've learned that I still have a lot to learn...'

'I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.'



Today is my 60th Birthday. Happy Birthday to myself.
Where can I begin, so much has happened in the past ten years, good and bad. Firstly I survived being infected with covit, I pulled through, where as many people have lost their lives.
I have learned:

To get excited and create changes even when being thrown with negative remarks.

Reduce the amount of negative inputs in my life.

Avoid getting into a position where I am unable to walk away. (Which unfortunately happens at times due to my work situation at the moment)

Create my own definition of success in any of my projects.

Except that, I will be lonely and it is not all bad.

Be more of a believer, not a cynic.

Accumulate less stuff, enjoy more life experiences.

Except that, sad but true: sometimes the people close to you will not understand.

Attack a few big projects at a time with lots of small steps.

Never be afraid, and not allow fears determine my decisions.

Pursue my life focused on creative work.

It's my journey and nobody else's.

And live life to the fullest as it is short. Live with urgency!

Tuesday, February 23, 2021

Beautiful Street Wear Fashion












10 Ways to Love




Listen without interrupting


Share without pretending


Speak without accusing


Enjoy without complaint


Give without sparing


Trust without wavering


Pray without ceasing


Forgive without punishing


Answer without arguing


Promise without forgetting

Monday, February 22, 2021

THE SEASONS OF LIFE

There was a man who had four sons. He wanted his sons to learn to not judge things too quickly. So he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and look at a pear tree that was a great distance away.

The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in summer, and the youngest son in the fall.

When they had all gone and come back, he called them together to describe what they had seen.

The first son said that the tree was ugly, bent, and twisted.

The second son said no – it was covered with green buds and full of promise.

The third son disagreed, he said it was laden with blossoms that smelled so sweet and looked so beautiful, it was the most graceful thing he had ever seen.

The last son disagreed with all of them; he said it was ripe and drooping with fruit, full of life and fulfilment.

The man then explained to his sons that they were all right, because they had each seen but one season in the tree’s life.

He told them that you cannot judge a tree, or a person, by only one season, and that the essence of who they are – and the pleasure, joy, and love that come from that life – can only be measured at the end, when all the seasons are up.

If you give up when it’s winter, you will miss the promise of your spring, the beauty of your summer, fulfilment of your fall.

Don’t judge a life by one difficult season. Don’t let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest.

livelifehappy.com




THE SERENITY PRAYER

GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY
TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CANNOT CHANGE;
COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS I CAN;
AND WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE.

LIVING ONE DAY AT A TIME;
ENJOYING ONE MOMENT AT A TIME;
ACCEPTING HARDSHIPS AS THE PATHWAY TO PEACE;
TAKING, AS HE DID, THIS SINFUL WORLD
AS IT IS, NOT AS I WOULD HAVE IT;
TRUSTING THAT HE WILL MAKE ALL THINGS RIGHT
IF I SURRENDER TO HIS WILL;
THAT I MAY BE REASONABLY HAPPY IN THIS LIFE
AND SUPREMELY HAPPY WITH HIM
FOREVER IN THE NEXT.
AMEN.

--REINHOLD NIEBUHR