Saturday, January 2, 2021
HOW DO YOU DECIDE WHO TO MARRY? ANSWERS BY CHILDREN
1. YOU GOT TO FIND SOMEBODY WHO LIKES THE SAME STUFF.
LIKE,
IF YOU LIKE SPORTS, SHE SHOULD LIKE IT THAT YOU LIKE
SPORTS, AND
SHE SHOULD KEEP THE CHIPS AND DIP COMING.
>ALAN,AGED 10
2. NO PERSON REALLY DECIDES BEFORE THEY GROW UP WHO
THEY'RE
GOING TO MARRY. GOD DECIDES IT ALL WAY BEFORE,
AND YOU GET
TO FIND OUT LATER WHO YOU'RE STUCK WITH.
>KIRSTEN, AGE 10
WHAT IS THE RIGHT AGE TO GET MARRIED?
1. TWENTY-THREE IS THE BEST AGE BECAUSE YOU KNOW THE
PERSON
FOREVER BY THEN.
>CAMILLE, AGE 10
2. NO AGE IS GOOD TO GET MARRIED AT. YOU GOT TO BE A
FOOL TO GE
MARRIED.
>FREDDIE, AGE 6 (VERY WISE FOR HIS AGE)
HOW CAN A STRANGER TELL IF TWO PEOPLE
ARE
MARRIED?
1. YOU MIGHT HAVE TO GUESS, BASED ON WHETHER THEY
SEEM TO BE
YELLING AT THE SAME KIDS.
>DERRICK, AGE 8
WHAT DO YOU THINK YOUR MOM AND DAD
HAVE IN COMMON?
1. BOTH DON'T WANT ANY MORE KIDS.
>LORI, AGE 8
WHAT DO MOST PEOPLE DO ON A DATE?
1. DATES ARE FOR HAVING FUN, AND PEOPLE SHOULD USE THEM
TO GET
TO KNOW EACH OTHER. EVEN BOYS HAVE SOMETHING TO
SAY IF YOU
LISTEN LONG ENOUGH.
>LYNNETTE, AGE 8 (ISN'T SHE A TREASURE)
2. ON THE FIRST DATE, THEY JUST TELL
EACH OTHER LIES AND THAT USUALLY GETS THEM INTERESTED
ENOUGH TO GO
FOR A SECOND DATE.
>MARTIN, AGE 10
WHAT WOULD YOU DO ON A FIRST DATE
THAT WAS TURNING SOUR?
1. I'D RUN HOME AND PLAY DEAD. THE NEXT DAY I WOULD
CALL ALL THE
NEWSPAPERS AND MAKE SURE THEY WROTE
ABOUT
ME IN ALL THE DEAD COLUMNS.
>CRAIG, AGE 9
WHEN IS IT OKAY TO KISS SOMEONE?
1. WHEN THEY'RE RICH.
>PAM, AGE 7
2. THE LAW SAYS YOU HAVE TO BE EIGHTEEN, SO I
WOULDN'T
WANT TO MESS WITH THAT.
>CURT, AGE 7
3. THE RULE GOES LIKE THIS: IF YOU KISS SOMEONE,
THEN YOU SHOULD
MARRY THEM AND HAVE KIDS WITH
THEM. IT'S
THE
RIGHT THING TO DO.
>HOWARD, AGE 8
IS IT BETTER TO BE SINGLE OR MARRIED?
1. I DON'T KNOW WHICH IS BETTER, BUT I'LL TELL YOU ONE
THING; I'M
NEVER GOING TO HAVE SEX WITH MY WIFE.
I
DON'T WANT TO BE ALL GROSSED OUT.
>THEODORE, AGE 8
2. IT'S BETTER FOR GIRLS TO BE SINGLE BUT NOT FOR BOYS.
BOYS NEED
SOMEONE TO CLEAN UP AFTER THEM.
>ANITA, AGE 9 (BLESS YOU CHILD)
HOW WOULD THE WORLD BE DIFFERENT
IF PEOPLE DIDN'T GET MARRIED?
1. THERE SURE WOULD BE A LOT OF KIDS TO EXPLAIN,
WOULDN'T
THERE
>KELVIN, AGE 8
AND THE FAVORITE IS........
HOW WOULD YOU MAKE A MARRIAGE
WORK?
1. TELL YOUR WIFE THAT SHE LOOKS PRETTY, EVEN IF
SHE LOOKS
LIKE A TRUCK.
>RICKY, AGE 10
A STRONG WOMAN
A strong woman works out every day to keep her body
in shape …
but
a woman of strength kneels in prayer to keep her soul in shape…
A
strong woman isn’t afraid of anything …
but a woman of strength shows courage in the midst of her fear…
A strong woman will not let anyone get the best of her …
but a woman of strength gives the best of her to everyone…
A strong woman makes mistakes and avoids the same in the future…
a woman of strength realizes life’s mistakes can also be God’s blessings and
capitalizes on them…
A strong woman walks sure footedly …
but a woman of strength knows God will catch her when she falls…
A strong woman wears the look of confidence on her face …
but a woman of strength wears grace…
A strong woman has faith that she is strong enough for the journey …
but a woman of strength has faith that it is in the journey that she will
become strong…
a strong woman is one who gets her heart broken time and time again and still
has the strength to gather the pieces to create a new life for herself.
Remember that no matter what pain you have been through, tears will dry, broken
hearts will heal, and somewhere out there the person who truly cares is
waiting. YOU ARE A WOMAN AND YOU ARE STRONG.
Natural Ways to Remove Acne Scars
For many acne sufferers, the prospect of living blemish-free can easily lead to a medicine cabinet full of chemical creams and oral medications. While these treatments may offer immediate and powerful results, they also tend to carry a long list of side-effects. For those who desire a safe alternative to get rid of the scars left behind from pimples and acne, try some of these clever natural solutions.
1. Aloe Vera
Fresh aloe vera gel is a potent source of vitamins which can
help to heal skin and fade scars. Aloe is gentle, so you won’t have to worry
about further damaging or irritating skin. Also, because aloe is such a
wonderful natural moisturizer, it will leave your skin looking and feeling
softer and healthier.
While aloe vera gel may be found in any drug store or pharmacy, fresh organic
aloe is best. Potted aloe plants are easy to find and require almost no
maintenance to grow even without the use of chemical fertilizers or pesticides.
Should you choose to use fresh aloe to combat your acne scars, just break off a
small piece of one leaf, peel away the outer flesh to expose the gel, and
massage gently into your skin. For best results, let the gel soak in for at
least thirty minutes before washing it off.
2. Baking Soda
Baking soda is a common household item with literally hundreds of uses,
including the ability to help heal scars. Baking soda is composed of sodium
bicarbonate crystals which gently exfoliate skin when used as a cleansing
scrub. Just mix a few teaspoons of baking soda with enough water to form a
thick paste then massage into skin where scars are present. Once applied, you
should leave the mixture on for a minute or two. This will allow the soda to
cleanse pores and help prevent further blemishes. After a couple of minutes,
wash your face in lukewarm water and apply a good natural moisturizer like rose
hip seed, jojoba, coconut, or olive oil.
Do this about once every other day for great results!
3. Coconut Oil
Coconut oil is at the top of the list when it comes
to natural moisturizers with healing properties. Scoop about a quarter of a
teaspoon of virgin coconut oil into the palm of your
hand and let it melt as it comes up to body temperature. With your fingertips,
massage oil directly onto scarred skin and let it soak in. There is no need to
wash coconut oil away as the vitamins and essential fatty acids will continue
to work and improve skin health as long as you wear it. However, if the oil is
too heavy for your comfort, leave it on for at least thirty minutes before
removing with an all-natural cleanser.
http://www.naturallivingideas.com/
Friday, January 1, 2021
NEVER BE AFRAID TO REINVENT YOURSELF.
7 Mistakes You're Making with Olive Oil
We all know that extra virgin olive oil (EVOO) is
one of the Seven Wonders of the Food World. It contains antioxidants and
heart-healthy fats galore—and, of course, it tastes amazing. EVOO is one of the
most common kitchen staples, but most home cooks don’t know much about it, says
Lauren Winstead, a buyer for Whole Foods Market's exclusive brands who recently underwent extra
virgin olive oil savant training (kind of like the olive oil equivalent of
sommelier training). Here, Winstead share the top mistakes you are probably
making:
Mistake #1: Buying Plastic or Clear Glass
The two biggest enemies of EVOO quality are oxygen and sunlight, says
Winstead—so if you're buying plastic or clear glass, your oil's in trouble.
"Once [air and light] touch the oil, it can begin to go rancid," she
says To preserve EVOO's pristine quality, opt for glass bottles that are dark
green or dark brown.
Mistake #2: Storing Your Oil Near Heat
Heat exposure—whether from the stove or direct light through a sunny window—is
also a no-no. "When EVOO is exposed [to heat], it can cause the
polyphenols [a.k.a., a type of antioxidants] to degrade and lower the flavor or
sensory profile," says Winstead. "You want to store it your pantry,
not on a windowsill or above the stove."
MORE: Size Matters: How Much Fat is Healthy?
Mistake #3: Judging Oil by Its Color
"Consumers mistake color for indication of quality," says Winstead.
"Color is only an indicator of when the olive was harvested and when oil
was pressed." Quality EVOOs can range from anywhere from vibrant green to
soft golden yellow—so don't discount an one just because the color's a little
different than what you were expecting.
Mistake #4: Believing One EVOO Fits All
When confronted with six shelves of olive oils, do you grab the cheap
store-brand option or the fancy bottle that costs more than a tank of gas? The
fact is, most people go with a middle-of-the-road pick and use a
one-size-fits-all approach. While Winstead says there's definitely a place in
your pantry for an everyday olive oil, she recommends also selecting a premium
oil with a more robust flavor profile for when the oil needs to shine through,
such as in homemade salad dressings and atop pasta dishes. Naturally,
Winstead loves the new line of Whole Foods Market Oils, which range from
peppery to fruity.
Mistake #5: Cooking Over High Heat
High-temperature cooking methods can destroy the antioxidants in EVOO and alter
the flavor, says Winstead. You shouldn't use olive oil for any
cooking method that requires temps above 360° F. So by all means,
sauté veggies and poach fish in the oil—just don't fry anything with
it.
Mistake #6: Cooking with Delicate Oils
More delicate olive oils—those with milder flavors—shouldn't
be exposed to heat at all to protect their aromatic properties and
flavors, says Winstead. Instead, use them as finishing oils to bring
out the flavors in a pasta dish, bruschetta, or cold salad.
Mistake #7: Hanging On To Your Oil Too Long
Ever bought one of those gas can-sized jugs of olive oil and saved it for
years? Never again! Winstead says that the shelf life on EVOO is about 24
months, so toss those old bottles before they overstay their welcome. A rancid
EVOO—which you can spot by its obviously unpleasant taste—has lost its health
benefits, as well as its flavor profile.
http://www.womenshealthmag.com/
BEAUTIFUL TOUCHING STORY
Shay and I had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked, 'Do you think they'll let me play?' I knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team, but as a father I also understood that if my son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.
StevenAitchison
THE SERENITY PRAYER | |
GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY LIVING ONE DAY AT A TIME;
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